I’ve been amazed at the things I’m learning about marriage that I didn’t know before. When my husband and I were first married I didn’t understand that unity in marriage really matters. A successful marriage will consist of two people who function as one person as much as possible. The more I think and care about my husband like he is a part of me, the better I feel in my marriage. The more time I spend with him, the more I like being around him. I have in my mindset that he and I are a team and believe it or not, it rubs off on him. The more I serve him, listen, and treat him like I would want to be treated the more he does it too. I can admit I was a really selfish person (and still working on that). Selfishness will harm if not end a marriage. So treat your mate as you would treat yourself, because you two are one. God Bless!