God often prearranges for us to marry someone who has characteristics that we lack. You may be a procrastinator and go about things at a very slow pace, but your mate may be a person who gets the job done in a timely manner. You may be anxious about things all the time, but your mate is cool, calm and at ease. You may be a chatty person who is not careful of what you say, but your mate often chooses her words wisely. Please don’t take this as a sign of incompatibility and contemplate divorce because of it. Instead make your marriage count by allowing these differences to make you a better person character wise. Marriage has a purpose and it should not be so easily thrown away. Let it help build you into the person that you are destined to be. God bless!