When you love someone you naturally want to do what it takes to please them. In my marriage I do what my husband asks me because we have a love relationship. I know him, he knows me and we both want to please each other. That’s the answer folks! developing a love relationship with God’s Son Jesus will open the door to you obeying His word. Jesus said “I am the way the truth and the life, no man comes to the Father but by me” John 14:6 Hope this helps. God Bless!