There is a lot of talk about divorce and finding someone new. We should change the conversation to forgiveness and reconciliation. Of course some relationships seem impossible because of “irreconcilable differences”, but aren’t we all different? Marriage is not about finding someone the same as you, but someone who compliments you. Someone who is strong in an area where you are lacking. That’s one of the reasons marriage can be difficult. I believe we should embrace our mate’s strengths and apply them to ourselves instead of rejecting them or hating them. As each person comes to love what is different about the other, it makes both parties better. The marriage is strengthened and the two will become one!