I cannot give detail by detail on how your remarriage to your spouse will go, but I can tell you that you will fight. Yes you read that right, you will have to fight but not with flesh and blood. God hates divorce, but Satan loves it. When your marriage is restored he(Satan) will throw many things your way to get you to ask, “why did I return to this marriage?”. But you know what? Greater is God that is for your marriage than Satan who is against it. You will have to take this mentality with you into your remarriage, if not you may just give up. Trust me when I tell you that all you have to do is lean on God and focus on your relationship with Jesus and not your circumstances. Do not give in to the urges to argue and fight with your spouse. Pray with your spouse and hold your peace. Your enemy is Satan and not your spouse. Continue to love and be patient with flesh and blood, if there is abuse get away from it but still pray from afar. God is bigger than abuse. He can heal any situation if He is asked. Remember God is for staying with your spouse til death, and if you don’t want to stay, His word says “remain unmarried” (1 Corinthians 7:11). He is more than able to restore! God Bless!